Its Only Werds...

...and werds are all i have.

more on significance

loreelle044 | May 15, 2008 12:28

(especially to parents) again i borrow another author's werds:

...what Moses was saying in Genesis 3, it bears repeating: God wired us so that He told us who we were, and outside that relationship, the relationship that said we were loved and valuable and beautiful, we didn't have any worth at all. As horrible as it sounds, it would make sense that things of worth are things God loves, and things that don't have worth are things God doesn't love. I mean, I really started wondering if maybe a human is defined by who loves him. I know it sounds terrible, because we have always grown up believing that a person is valuable even if nobody loves them, and I certainly agree with that because God made everybody and the Bible very clearly states He loves everybody. But, as Paul said, if those relations are disturbed, the relations between God and man, then we feel the desire to be loved and respected by other people instead of God, and if we don't get that love and respect, we feel very sad or angry because we know that our glory is at stake, that if there isn't some glory being shone through us by somebody who has authority, we'll be dead inside, like a little light will go out and our souls will feel dark, like nothing can grow there. We'll feel that there is a penalty, by default, for being removed from love.
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Do you know the easiest part of the gospel of Jesus for me to believe? The part that says the wages of sin is death (see Romans 6:23). I take that to mean when Adam and Eve sinned....from that point on Adam and Eve began to die, not only physically, but in their souls, too, because they had been separated from God. It makes sense that if a plant is separated from the sun, it dies, and that if people are separated from God, they die.
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...what we really need is God. What we really need is somebody who loves us so much we don't worry about death, about our hair thinning, about other drivers pulling in front of us on the road, about whether people are poor or rich, good-looking or ugly, about whether we feel lonely or about whether or not we are wearing clothes. We need this; we need this so we can see everybody as equals, we need this so our relationships can be sincere, we need this so we can stop kicking ourselves around, we need this so we can lose all self-awareness and find ourselves for the first time, not by realizing some dream, but by being told who we are by the only Being who has the authority to know; by that I mean the Creator.
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It would be prudent to summarize a few ideas that have brought us to this dilemma. If a human being is wired so that something outside himself gives him life, and if a separation from that something would cost him his life (physically, but also spiritually), then a human personality would seek a kind of redemption from a jury of his peers...
...an understanding of Christianity as an identity ...by which we compare ourselves to others is entirely inappropriate...Jesus would indicate the greatest thing you and I can do to display we know Him is to love our brothers and sisters unconditionally, to love our neighbors as ourselves, and to love our enemies.
It makes you feel that as a parent the most important thing you can do is love your kids, hold them and tell them you love them because, until we get to heaven, all we can do is hold our palms over the wounds. I mean, if a kid doesn't feel he is loved, he is going to go looking for it in all kinds of ways. *He is going to want to feel powerful or important or tough, and *she is going to want to feel beautiful and wanted and needed. Give a kid the feeling of being loved early, and they will be better at negotiating that other stuff when they get older. They won't fall for anything stupid, and they won't feel a kind of desperation all the time in their souls. It is not coincidence that Jesus talks endlessly about love. Free love. Unconditional love.
 

Donald Miller, Nelson Books 2004 "SEARCHING FOR GOD KNOWS WHAT"

*emphasis added, because I PASSIONATELY agree...not apologizing for "yelling" neithertoo!

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Re: more on significance

Frank | 05/15/2008, 13:32

If my hair was thinning and I didn't have clothes on, no one would love me. My mom, but she doesn't see so well anymore. She still sees my high school graduation picture. ; ) But you are right (and him too).

clothes

loreelle044 | 05/15/2008, 13:36

loreelle044 that whole reference to "having clothes on" is an amazing passage as well -- perhaps i share it later. i was digging through old writes trying to find a little one i wrote about my mom's dad (my Pappaw Mooney). how's Frank? hugz 2 U, loree

Keep blogging

jcubed | 06/06/2008, 11:11

Keep blogging.
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